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Summary

The text discusses the importance of inculcating values (sanskar) in children from an early age, emphasizing the roles of environment, parents, and teachers. It begins by noting that a child's mind is like a blank slate, easily shaped by surroundings. A nurturing environment of friendship and love fosters positive qualities, while a negative one leads to bad habits. The text cites Edward Burein's book, stating that a calm environment helps the mind develop naturally, whereas a polluted one causes depression and stifles creativity. It then presents a quote from former Indian President Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam, who said future generations will remember the current one not for building places of worship, but for handing over a healthy, prosperous, and culturally rich India. The text argues this is achievable by giving children the right values. It stresses that a child has seeds of both good and evil, and proper values can make them a good person, while wrong ones can lead to harm. Examples from Russia, China, and Japan are given, where value-based education starts as early as one year of age. The primary responsibility for shaping a child's character is placed on the mother, father, and teacher. The text quotes Napoleon, stating a child's future is made by its mother. It highlights the sensitivity of a fetus, citing the example of Abhimanyu learning to enter a battle formation in the womb. Two contrasting stories illustrate a mother's influence: one mother corrected her daughter for forging a signature, while another encouraged her son's theft, leading him to become a criminal. The text also notes the negative impact of television, citing an incident where a cartoon caused illness in children, and a study showing violence on TV has a long-lasting effect on children. It concludes by distinguishing between informational education (grahan-shiksha) and practical, character-building education (asevan-shiksha), advocating for the latter to create value-driven children.