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जी का जंजाल

Vol. 53 · No. 08August - 2005pp. 30-37Hindi

Summary

The story depicts the plight of an elderly mother living with her four sons on a rotating three-month schedule. Despite having raised her children with great care and sacrifice, she is treated as a burden in each household. Her daughters-in-law serve her unappealing food and speak to her disrespectfully. When she requests roti due to illness, she is given rice and eggplant, which she cannot eat. Her sons, once inseparable from her, now prioritize their wives and finances over her well-being. She recalls her late husband’s assurance that their large family would care for her, but the reality is starkly different. Her daughters wish to care for her, but their husbands object, fearing she might give them money meant for the sons. The sons have placed the money their father left for her in long-term fixed deposits, with themselves as nominees, leaving her only a small pension for personal expenses. She feels trapped by the traditional belief that a woman must be under her son’s care in old age. Her son Samata, upon hearing his wife’s complaints, confronts her angrily, suggesting she use her own money for special food. The mother laments that her children’s affection was based on need, and now that they have their own families, they have turned away. She finds solace only in prayer, yet her maternal love prevents her from becoming indifferent. The story highlights her emotional and physical suffering, the sons’ greed for her money, and the painful realization that her sacrifices have not been reciprocated.

Conclusion

The document reveals the painful reality of an elderly mother reduced to a burden in her sons' homes, despite having raised them with love and sacrifice. The implications are stark: traditional expectations of filial care have failed, replaced by neglect, verbal abuse, and financial exploitation. The sons and daughters-in-law view her as an inconvenience, rotating her among households every three months while controlling the funds her husband left for her security. The mother's helplessness is compounded by societal norms that prevent her from using her own money independently. The outcome is a cycle of emotional suffering, where her children prioritize their own interests over her well-being. This narrative underscores the urgent need for stronger social support systems and a cultural shift toward genuine respect for elders, rather than treating them as disposable assets in a family rotation system.

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